Reciprocation, an art that combines intelligence and spiritual maturity, can be both about tit-for-tat and outwitting your opponent. Responding intelligently and forgivingly can embarrass and silence your opponents. This was seen in the example of Nelson Mandela and Bishop Desmond Tutu, who outlasted the South African apartheid government through their winning smile. The art of giving a humble response to insults requires patience and wit, and is a sign of wisdom and resilience in life.